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I am a survivor of spiritual abuse and religious trauma which resulted in a Spiritual Identity Disruption.

Four religious cults shaped the foundation of my life.

 

I know firsthand what it’s like to question everything you once believed—to feel lost, hurt, and confused by the teachings of traditional churches and religious organizations. More than fifteen years ago, as a young, new mom, I faced a crisis of faith that left my spiritual foundation shattered. At the time, words like “religious trauma” or “deconstruction” didn’t exist in mainstream conversations. I searched for help, moving from counselor to counselor, but no one truly understood what I was going through. I felt alone, wounded, and overwhelmed by trauma. That experience became my motivation.

I never want there to be another scared, amazing young mom out there who feels alone and powerless as she faces big questions about her life and faith.

Today, I’m here to support people—just like you—who are navigating the twisting, uncertain and sometimes colorful space between old beliefs and new truths. I understand the pain and isolation that can come with this journey and want to help you find your way forward.

If you’re standing in that uncertain space—questioning, hurting, or searching—I want you to know your experience is real and important. You don’t have to walk this path alone. Whether you’re looking for clarity, healing, or simply someone who gets it, I’m here to walk beside you. Your story, with all its questions and doubts, is exactly where your strength begins.

 
 
 

This is a safe space to ask hard questions.

 
 

Rebekah’s work has been featured on platforms such as:

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Bio

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Rebekah Drumsta is committed to supporting survivors of spiritual abuse and religious trauma. With more than twenty years of experience in nonprofit leadership, she has made meaningful contributions to organizations around the world.

Raised in the 1980s Christian homeschool movement, Rebekah was deeply involved in church life, serving in multiple ministry leadership roles and participating in overseas mission work. Her journey through four religious cults has given her a profound understanding of faith, trauma, and the healing process.

As a active consultant, coach, writer, and advocate at RebekahDrumsta.com, Rebekah provides resources to educate and empower both survivors and the broader public about the complexities of spiritual abuse and religious trauma. In 2024, Rebekah founded the Religious Trauma Network. She has served as a board member for the Attachment and Trauma Network and The Vashti Initiative.

Rebekah also led the NPE Network as CEO, supporting individuals and families navigating the unexpected and often traumatic outcomes of at-home DNA testing.

She holds undergraduate and advanced degrees in Urban Ministry, Family Crisis, Counseling, and Religious Education, and is a certified Professional Life Coach. Her expertise has been featured on major platforms including BBC, NBC, and ABC, as well as in film, podcast, and media projects.

In December 2021, Rebekah published her book, When Family Hurts: 30 Days to Finding Healing and Clarity, and contributed to the collaborative book Hope in the 2020s: Encouragement for Our Time, released in 2023.

Outside her advocacy work, Rebekah enjoys spending time with her family—binge-watching shows, thrifting, traveling, and exploring creative pursuits. A native Texan, she now lives in Wyoming with her husband, daughter, and their beloved Cavapom companion.

Through her lived experience and professional dedication, Rebekah strives to foster understanding, healing, and hope for those affected by religious trauma.

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