I am a survivor of spiritual abuse and religious trauma which resulted in a Spiritual Identity Disruption.

Four religious cults shaped the foundation of my life.

Having grappled with my faith and personal belief system - a complete deconstruction - I know what it’s like to be hurt and confused by the teachings of many traditional Christian churches and religious organizations. I understand how it feels to be in that scary middle ground when you realize what you had believed isn’t true, but yet, what is the truth?

My spiritual foundation came tumbling down about fifteen years ago when I was a young, new mom. At that time, there were no resources. The terms “religious trauma” or “deconstruction” weren’t a thing. Moving from counselor to counselor I looked for help, yet no one I talked to could understand my situation. I was alone. I was hurting. I had experienced trauma. My own journey is what led me to help people, in any way I can, who have also experienced harm in the name of religion.

I never want there to be another scared, amazing young mom out there who feels alone and powerless as she faces big questions about her life and faith.

Each person’s journey is customized. My hope is that as your awareness grows, you will begin to gain clarity. Your story has meaning. Your story has a purpose. If you are facing your own personal crisis of identity and deconstruction of faith know this - you are not alone.

Rebekah Drumsta is dedicated to supporting survivors of spiritual abuse and religious trauma. With over two decades of experience in various nonprofit organizations, she has been fortunate to contribute to meaningful work on a global scale.

Growing up in the 1980s Christian homeschool movement, Rebekah found herself deeply immersed in church life, serving in various ministry leadership roles and participating in overseas mission work. Her journey through four religious cults has profoundly shaped her understanding of faith, trauma and healing.

As a consultant, coach, writer, and advocate at RebekahDrumsta.com, Rebekah aims to provide resources that educate and empower both survivors and the wider public about the complexities of spiritual abuse. She serves on the board of the Attachment and Trauma Network and has previously been a board member of The Vashti Initiative.

Rebekah also had the privilege of leading NPE Network as CEO, where she worked to assist individuals and families navigating unexpected results from at-home DNA tests.

She holds undergraduate and advanced degrees in Urban Ministry, Family Crisis, Counseling, and Religious Education, along with certification as a Professional Life Coach. Her insights have been shared on platforms such as BBC, NBC, and ABC along with significant film, podcast and media projects.

In December 2021, Rebekah published her book, "When Family Hurts: 30 Days to Finding Healing and Clarity," and she contributed to the collaborative book "Hope in the 2020s: Encouragement for our time" released in 2023.

Outside of her advocacy work, Rebekah enjoys spending time with her family—binge-watching shows, thrifting, traveling, and exploring creative pursuits. A native Texan, she shares her life in Wyoming with her husband, daughter, and their beloved Cavapom companion.

Through her experiences and ongoing efforts, Rebekah hopes to foster understanding and healing for those affected by religious trauma.

It was reported in 2021 that less than 50% of adults in the US claim membership at a church, synagogue or mosque.

According to a study done in 2020, those who attend a religious service at least once a month is 33% with 66% reporting attending a few times a year or less.